If you have to ask it's because you already know?

 Taking a risk when the probabilities that something gone right are high it's exciting, even adrenalitic. Now right, in the situation when there's 50/50 of posibilities it doesen't look like a good idea if the lost it's too big or too deep. 

"Do it and if you're scared, do it with scare", say the voice of the conscious. "What's the worst it could happen?", inquire. We all know that we already have the "no" but we're afraid to confirm that thing which can leave us a scar, which can leave us in an emotional coma. The human beign protect theirself but never stop being curious and whant to solve all the questions that cross their mind.

Thinking the situation as: "I have 2 options: agonize in my anxiety or deal with what's happening". It is logic, but between there to take the first step and make uncomfortable questions, there's an ocean in the middle. 

We make list of "pro and cons" about what implies making the questions, how to do it ("Do I say it at once like a band aid or take care of my words?") , if the risk it's too big, if the moment it's right -and to be honest, the end of the year it's never a good moment to nothing that implies intense feelings- how many time can take us to recover us, etc. 

Inquire outside of the comfort zone it's always uncomfortable because our intuition make a first step and analize the probabilities in base of the experience -when the mayority it's negative appears the fear, otherwise we will jump even with the eyes closed-, it's all triall and error.

Saying this, we'll deserve know the truth even if it's the most cruel of all the truths. Nobody should stay in the position of uncertainty, of not know what's the place which their take. We'll deserve to know if we stay or if we go, if we're loved or our presence it's indifferent. We deserve to take the risk and say everything thath happens to us, cause in otherwise, we'll exploit in doubts.