Adults are talking

 What's to confront your parents? It's put yourself in a position, not as a daughter/son -or any pronoun that you use- but as peer adults. 

Confrontation it's never easy and almost always necessary. It's that boiling point when the air gets moist and any material near its melted. It's a body tired of making excuses and swallow venom made by words and actions from whom it's suposed to protect us from the world and help us grow. 

Confront our parents it doesn't implied to spit the chewed venom but implied say all the things tha they need to hear, no matter how raw and painful it is. Implied leave the nice words because "im your daughter/son, how can i dare myself to tell them that?" and put boundaries. There comes a point at in the life when in some situations we transform ourself into the parents of our parents and we not only see al the mistakes they making ut we must use the word "NO", put up a barrier, an space, a  distance. 

Confrontation it's not a war - although it usually feels that way - basically cause in a war we want to win something and in the confrontation we want leave established something, but without any doubt the pre preparation it's worthy of a movie; We prepare ourself mentally, we ready our best weapons, planifiqued the attack - sometimes - and analized the possible lost. That's how it feels a confrontation wich must have had a place a long time ago and was just displaced in time. 

Confront our parents it's to erupt, feel all the things repressed, like every cell of our body take temperature, the throat closes, the eyes burn and suddenly you can't control your brain or your tongue; Your whole being it's in "attack mode" and you only have to watch the show from the outside, as if you could leave your physical body. 

Confronting your parents it's one of those necessary situations of grow of when either the pairs reach an understanding or it's the absolute and announced ruin of a relationship where the doors close and the key melts.