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Adults are talking

 What's to confront your parents? It's put yourself in a position, not as a daughter/son -or any pronoun that you use- but as peer adults.  Confrontation it's never easy and almost always necessary. It's that boiling point when the air gets moist and any material near its melted. It's a body tired of making excuses and swallow venom made by words and actions from whom it's suposed to protect us from the world and help us grow.  Confront our parents it doesn't implied to spit the chewed venom but implied say all the things tha they need to hear, no matter how raw and painful it is. Implied leave the nice words because "im your daughter/son, how can i dare myself to tell them that?" and put boundaries. There comes a point at in the life when in some situations we transform ourself into the parents of our parents and we not only see al the mistakes they making ut we must use the word "NO" , put up a barrier, an space, a  distance.  Confronta

About four walls and the same air: discovering another human

 Coexistence ; something we experience at least once in our life. A portal for self-discovery and the rediscovery of the other. Coexistence can be a double-edged sword. In the worst case , two incompatible, demanding or suffocating personalities collide. Our worst habits come to light, the worst version of our personality and make an unbreakable relationship, something broken and rotten. But in the best of cases ... Support is found, you know the other in their small habits and routines - and you can even find yourself fascinated by them -, you see the other person in their most vulnerable, most human and most sensitive way. Some gatherings are not planned, they simply arise at the moment and are the perfect opportunity to experience oneself and the other. Living together is sharing, it is understanding, listening, trusting. It's not for everyone, but taking a test can clarify whether a person may or may not be part of something bigger than brief moments. Some keys to know if you a

Lover, leaver, taker but above all... Believer

 I'm a believer, but not in a catholic way. I'm that type of believer who doesn't believe in God but believes in some superior force that helps us get what we want/need -something like believing in the universe or manifesting- I feel it more like an intuition (idealize or manifest? Only one has a good ending). I always trust or believe in "causality" more than "casuality" perhaps because in my reflection I fit the pieces together and I am amazed at how different things would have been if it weren't for one detail. I'm a believer that what "belongs to you" finds you. A believer that 2 people cross paths for something and if there is a reunion after months/years, you have to pay special attention to that. Maybe I'm too naive, maybe I live in my own religion or maybe we should believe in something given the circumstances of our reality. But I can't help it, I'm a believer in causality and the 6th senses that shake our stomachs

Sometimes the simplest things are the most that I like

 I like to see you asleep but not in a creepy way, just wake up in the middle of the night - or daytime - and look at yourself in your simplest form, contemplate your features and slowly go back to sleep. I like to see you do what you like the most, what you are passionate about and what you are. You have a different glow, something special, mixed with a relaxation that cannot always be seen in a person. The commitment and hard work behind to progress and improve yourself is evident. I like to hear you laugh and I wish I could do it more often. It's one of those catchy sounds -and to be sincere-, one of the most beautiful that I heard in a long time. Sometimes I keep it on my memory just to remember the happiness of the moment. I like to hear you say "I like you" or "I miss you" because your way of say it is so private, so just for me, even cautelous. Your tone to say it it's always so deep, like you don't want that I forget it.  I like to see you w