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Adults are talking

 What's to confront your parents? It's put yourself in a position, not as a daughter/son -or any pronoun that you use- but as peer adults.  Confrontation it's never easy and almost always necessary. It's that boiling point when the air gets moist and any material near its melted. It's a body tired of making excuses and swallow venom made by words and actions from whom it's suposed to protect us from the world and help us grow.  Confront our parents it doesn't implied to spit the chewed venom but implied say all the things tha they need to hear, no matter how raw and painful it is. Implied leave the nice words because "im your daughter/son, how can i dare myself to tell them that?" and put boundaries. There comes a point at in the life when in some situations we transform ourself into the parents of our parents and we not only see al the mistakes they making ut we must use the word "NO" , put up a barrier, an space, a  distance.  Confronta